Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Birthday Celebrations!!!

 Happy Birthday!!!!!!

We have celebrated some very special birthdays last month. Baby J turned one and my little rockstar turned 2!

Birthdays are very special for everyone in the house but also a good reflection for me personally. Birthdays are fun to see how much our kids have grown but also to remember that its an anniversary of something really tragic. 

A year ago on that day was the scariest day for Baby J’s mom. She didn’t know how she was going to care for her new son. And Two years ago Rockstar’s mom was in a similar situation. I dont normally think about these babies mom’s. But however these babies came to us, the amount of hurt that all these mom’s must have is probably immeasurable.

On the flip side to that somber note...

I am so proud of my boys and how big they are growing. I enjoy telling them how wanted they are and how much I love them and Jesus too. I love kissing their cheeks and seeing their huge smiles on their faces.

Baby J I think has grown more than any baby in the house. He was sooo sick and in a lot of distress when he came to us. In less than 24 hours we had to readmit him to the hospital. He continues to surprise me everyday with the new things he can do. When he is very happy he loves to talk and smile at all of us Aunties. J has his own sensory box with different textures to expose him to. It is so funny to see how much he enjoys the feel of a towel. He loves the wind blowing on his face and sleeping. Love him to Pieces.

Baby J in Hospital


5 months old






Baby E and I getting ready for the party!

Birthday Boy!
Big Boys P and N waiting for cake!


Birthday Boy eating Cake! 








































First Bible!


 Oh my little Rockstar. I have known P since he was 7 months old and the love in my heart for him continues to grow everyday. He is the smartest two year old I have ever met. He pulls out full sentences at the craziest times. He loves puzzles and I find it hard to find something to challenge him with. The wooden puzzles Im pretty sure he could put together with his eyes closed.  He counts to 10 and loves to put in the number 7 whenever he thinks necessary. His favorite song to sing is Jesus Loves Me and always asks me to play “Hallelujah” on my phone. (All Creatures by David Crowder Band)


How precious is your steadfast love, O God! The children of mankind take refuge in the shadow of your wings.
Psalm 36:7

10 Months

13 months old

1 year!

2 weeks ago

P loves legos he calls them towers (confusion with what they are vs what hes building) 



Reading with our Babies

First week with him
All his brothers and Sisters wore either "Cars" Themed shirts

or Red to support his lightening McQueen Birthday!


 Rice Crispy treat birthday "Cake"

Birthday Boy!

Opening Presents with Auntie Nicole

He enjoyed the Chips better than the cake

Lots of people from Refilwe showed up for his party! Everyone loves Peter!


P loved going through his toys after his guest left 

A shout out Today to Nicole on her Birthday! So Blessed I get to go through life with you here in South Africa!

Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!


Friday, September 12, 2014

August Winds and September Flowers

Hey Family! I hope you all are doing well.


All the babies are doing so well. They are all healthy and naughty. We have 2 toddlers, 1 crawler, 3 sitting up on their own, 4 who enjoy their tummy time and 1 very tiny little girl.  A total of 11 babies!

My days are filled with Feedings, Burpings, Exercises, Crying, laughing, nappy changes and smiles. Some days, like yesterday, can be hard when we have a handful of cranky babies and toddlers. But it is such a learning experience to try to figure out how to be creative in keep my kids happy. Pushing my patience a little bit further, so I can grow to look a little bit more like Jesus everyday. I am so thankful that my heavenly father is so patient with me. If God had my patience I would be in trouble a lot more, oh dear.




Nicole and I have been so blessed to have our home church be so supportive of the baby house and want to be part of what we are doing. They have organized a nappy drive, “baby showers” and most recently put on a benefit concert. On Aug 1 the winner of South African Idol, ( yes they even have Idol here too) Kayah Mthethwa, came to our church and did a concert. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wn8MJRriw0)
 R30,000 ($3,000) was raised for the baby house! God has been so kind in his provision. It came just in time since we were not sure how we were going to buy size 3 nappies.

Bongiwe and I
The BIG check for R30,000

Kayah
Baby T




We have had another Adoption!

Baby T is moving to Denmark with her Forever Family. The Transition has been a little rough but her parents are so in love with their little girl and can't wait to be back home.











*****Sometimes I talk about another project at Refilwe called Kids Club. Every Saturday we host the kids from the informal settlement, Joe Slovo. On my Days off I love getting to spend time with these kids and Its one of my favorite places to be. Instead of me trying to explain it, I can just show you. The beautiful Ari Byers created a video about Kids Club. Please take a couple minutes to watch these people that are very close to my heart!
   
http://vimeo.com/102714537


Precious Baby E and I

Toddler N

How can you be praying for us?

-The Roof at the baby house is really struggling.  Please pray for wisdom and swiftness as an Organization on how to fix it. Also that it keeps the rain out as we approach the rainy season here in SA.
- Prayer for water at the baby house is always needed and very much appreciated. We have gone the longest stretch in many months where we have consistent water. I think we are around 5 weeks of running and hot water. Yay!
-We have a spot open in our house! I believe that God brings specific babies to our house. I always get curious when we have a spot open for a long time because I have to wonder who God is waiting to be born. There is no shortage of babies who need a home so God has someone extra special in mind for us to Love on.

-A prayer for myself is that I keep my eyes on Jesus while a lot of changes are going to happen around me. In the House that I  live in there are many volunteers coming in and out in the next couple weeks. Sometimes I can get very anxious with inconsistency and change. I need reminding of Gods promises, that he is my constant.

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10

Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
1 Peter 5:7


Toddler P (Rockstar) stretching his legs

Baby M and I are Rocking the Stripes

Celebrating 4th of July with people from all over the World


Andy and I took Nana and Sanele to Monte Casino!

First time at an Arcade!

Little Princess A
Aunties Evelyn and Nici during Feeding time



Thursday, June 26, 2014

Adoptions All Around!


Hey Family I hope you are doing well. I made it a whole year! God has been so good to me here in SA. It is so cool to see how practically he has protected and provided. So much has happened since the last time I wrote so ill try to fill you in best I can.
Giggle's cute adoption outfit

We had our first international adoption in March!

Our big boy Giggles (Baby S) was introduced to his forever family. With it being our second toddler placement, we are always a bit nervous about the handover, due to an older placement. It went great! God has been so evident with all of our placements preparing the babies in amazing ways. Three weeks later Giggles and his parents came to visit the baby house and see where their son has grown up. They are so sweet and even brought small gifts for the children and aunties. As their new little family drove away, all I could think about was how well the parents complimented their new little boy. God always knows exactly which type of family each baby needs.





At the end of March, my Aunt Jerri came and visited me for about 10 days. It was so great to have family in my environment. I got to show off my Africa and all my babies too.
Aunt Jerri and I
Four Babies at once, what a pro!

Aunt Jerri got to meet my girl
April 14th was the happiest and hardest day I have ever experienced. I have never quite had day that gives me such peace in my heart and at the same time leave a deep loss. My Sweet Baby Girl was placed with her forever family on this day. Since I cant seem to write any more sentences without being super emotional about it, I will say this. Despite my heart being so invested in My Sweet Girl, God protected my heart. He has been so faithful in this last year with my girl, answering all my prayers for her and her new parents. I am confident God hand picked this amazing family from Holland. I got to meet her forever parents and they are very sweet. I miss her terribly everyday but I know she is so loved and happy in her new home.


Happy 1st Birthday Baby Girl!
Party Dress!
Adoption outfit
 
Last Pictures
For the whole months of May I got to go back to California. It was so good to see family and friends again. The time went quickly and sometimes I felt like a crazy person driving from one end of the bay to the other. I am so thankful for all the encouragement and I rest I received. Definitely necessary after a busy year and with a busy year to come. 
So much to fit in 12 hours with April
My sister and I watched so many cheesy movies
Walking Dozer
 Such a busy time at the baby house the last couple weeks. We got two new babies and a toddler in a couple short weeks plus a Local Adoption! 
Baby L Adoption Outfit

One of our new little hands

Finances:
I still need $900 to be fully funded to serve for the next 9 months. If you would like to be apart supporting my time here in South Africa please send checks to:

Whitney Eitzen
6140 Kavala Court
Pleasanton, Ca 94566


Checks written out to VALLEY BIBLE CHURCH
Donations are tax deductible


Prayer Requests:

-That I continue to draw near to the Heavenly father
-The babies to be healthy and strong during this winter season
-God brings our little Rockstar the perfect family at the right time
-That I continue to let God work on my heart by letting Jesus fill this little girl shaped hole in my heart

We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. Hebrews 6:19
 
Blessings,
Whitney

"Little" Brother Graduated 8th Grade
Now he gets to go to High School
My Girl <3
Still trying to develop a good attitude about flying

Our new cat Gatsby (aka Kitty)

A Welcome Home Line Up

Birthday Love from these kids

One of my Favorite Families: Khanyi and her Kids Nana and Sanele